The first snow came and covered everything in its silent whiteness. Then crunching underfoot, boots sliding on hidden ice and snowflakes on upturned faces.
At night, the snow reflects the city lights and the grey ceiling of cloud is luminous as it reflects the snow, a pair of misted mirrors.
I am filled with a listlessness and I hesitate to blame the snow, but I am not sure what else it could be. My time is spent doing nothing of merit, and because there is less of it than before I chastise myself for being wasteful when I could instead be writing or exercising or performing household duties. I did not previously concern myself with being productive every minutes, but it feels like most weekdays I come home and sleep. Nearly two months later, I still have not found my rhythm. I feel I am getting closer, though.
It is important to write how I feel.
Tomorrow begins a new week of trying to undo the damage caused by taking a desk job. I continue to be amazed at the tightness of shirts that flattered my figure not two months gone. I don’t look any different apart from that: no new stretchmarks, my body has mostly absorbed this change. I worry about a heart attack at 30 and having to buy new clothes (I bought three new pairs of jeans because the old ones no longer fit).
I want to be better.
I am getting a guitar for Christmas. I look forward to drawing on my lessons from high school, learning how much I remember. I should have asked for my grandfather’s guitar but it seemed so wrong to want it, like I was gaining something from his death. Objectively, it makes sense to want something ot his to remember him by; what better than the very same instrument he loaned me to learn with? It’s likely too late now.
Music may help me to be more open. I am too private with my emotions. I should not be afraid to share them with those I care about.